Men's Counselling
I do specialist work with men to help them achieve their goals in life.
While working in a men's relationship counselling service, and later in suicide intervention, I saw that standard approaches to counselling often weren't quite right for many men. Certainly not for the kinds of men I have spent my life around, having grown up in a rural tradesmen and farming family. So over the years I explored common the psychological differences with us men, and developed an approach that is more suited to us. This tied in nicely with the fact that I have done a lot of personal work on myself as a man, in terms of masculine identity in the 21st century.
I coach and counsel men to achieve more success in their lives. This includes:
While working in a men's relationship counselling service, and later in suicide intervention, I saw that standard approaches to counselling often weren't quite right for many men. Certainly not for the kinds of men I have spent my life around, having grown up in a rural tradesmen and farming family. So over the years I explored common the psychological differences with us men, and developed an approach that is more suited to us. This tied in nicely with the fact that I have done a lot of personal work on myself as a man, in terms of masculine identity in the 21st century.
I coach and counsel men to achieve more success in their lives. This includes:
- Men who are struggling in their relationship and want to turn things around
- Men recovering from a separation and making the future better
- Men who want to do better, in dating and sex
- Men who want to create a more satisfying career
- Men who want to overcome negative emotions
- Men who want greater confidence, emotional toughness, as well as calm, and satisfaction in life
- Men who suffer from "nice guy syndrome" - whose shame or anxiety stops them being assertive and successful in love and work
