Too many men dabble in a bit of counselling or coaching, but leave things half-done.

That doesn't work elsewhere in life, and it doesn't work when it comes to personal growth and relationship change. 

So I offer a four month program, blending counselling and coaching, which is all about you creating clear goals and seeing them through. 

This is the nuclear option for men who want to transform their lives.

The reason you're here


​is because you've got challenges in dating, or relationships, or work,

or you're simply not as happy and confident as you could be.

And you want to work with a professional to turn everything around.
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How I help


I've been working as a men's counsellor and coach for years. I've talked many men back from bridges, supported others through separations, and counselled many who felt stuck, in despair, or anxious.

I've also guided many more men toward positive goals: to get good at dating, to greatly improve their relationships, to get their career on track, and to craft themselves into the strong, happy men they want to be. 

You hire a tradesman for your house, you hire a personal trainer for your body, and you hire a men's counsellor and coach for your life. I have the knowledge, tools, and skills to help you succeed in relationships and work, and in becoming the happy, confident man you want to be.

I bundle my counselling and coaching together, because this format works best for most men: counselling helps you gain insight and work through emotions, and coaching gives you the tools, accountability, and guidance to achieve outcomes. 
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How this works


We’ll jump straight into the problem or goal. We'll get clear on what needs changing, on you need to do, and how to do it. 

So the program is tailored to your goals, and your personality, but in the way that servicing an engine is:

​I'll use my professional expertise to help you to understand things much better, and to guide you in what works.

​What to expect


There's things you want in life which, for whatever reason, you haven't achieved on your own. Working with me provides the difference, the factor which finally leads to achieving them.

If you're ready to make changes, and you put in the effort, then you'll start to see achieve these things in yourself and your life. These may be changes which you didn't think were possible, for example in becoming strong and skillful as a partner, or confident and successful in dating. In other words, you'll start to create the life you actually want.

I provide 90 minute intensives, and four month programs. Those who attend an intensive session can choose to credit it to a program. See here for the 90 minute intensive, and keep reading below about the four month program.

Here's what the Four Month Intensive package includes:

  • A comprehensive starter pack so you can set your goals for our work together.
 
  • Twelve sessions across four months by phone, video, or in-person.
 
  • An intensive and extended first session (90 minutes) to review your life, clarify your goals, assess your challenges, and work over any fears or obstacles to our work. 
 
  • Then eleven 50 minute sessions to be spread out according to your preference.
 
  • For those who want it, you can keep yourself accountable by sending me a summary of your progress every day - for four months!
 
  • The ability to shift goals as we go, as you learn more about yourself and what you really want.
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Book a discovery call now and we'll discuss what I do and whether the program is right for you.
(Note, the call will not be a coaching session, and is only for people who are ready and able to start now, though there'll be no hard sell, just a frank conversation about what you want and how I help with that.)