Succeed in ​relationships, work, and life

The reason you're here


​is because you want to make things better in your life.

You've got challenges around dating, or relationships, or work, or you're not as happy or confident as you could be.

And you want to work with a professional to get the understanding, tools, and coaching to make things better.
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How I help


I've been working as a men's counsellor and coach for years. I've talked many men back from bridges, supported others through cruel separations, and counselled a lot who felt stuck, in despair, and anxious.

On the other side, I've coached many men toward positive goals: to get good at dating, to greatly improve their relationships, to get their career on track, and to craft themselves into the strong, happy men they want to be. 

You hire a tradesman for your house, you hire a personal trainer for your body, and you hire a men's counsellor and coach for your life. I have the knowledge, tools, and skills to help you succeed in relationships and work, and in becoming the happy, confident man you want to be.

I bundle my counselling and coaching together, and offer it all as coaching, because that format works best for most men. Counselling gives you a confidential space where you can be honest and gain deeper insight, while a coaching provides the guidance, tools, accountability, and focus on outcomes. This is a far more powerful formula than just counselling or just coaching.
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How this works


We’ll jump straight into what’s not working, we'll get clear on what the solutions are, and then we'll clarify what you need to do, and how to do it.

Similar if you come with positive goals: we'll get clear on what you want to achieve, what you need to do, and how to go about it. 

Of course you're not a machine, you're a man, so we'll spend plenty of time getting insight, facing the secret fears, and basically doing the deeper work which frees you - after all this time! - and clears the way for you to make the changes you want.

And this is much more than knowledge. I want you to walk away from our time together a far more skillful man. So you’ll get a much better understanding of yourself, of others, and of ho w you can continually make life better.

You'll gain knowledge, you'll learn techniques, and you'll develop skills, tailored to you and your life. 

Now, I can't do the work for you. If you put nothing into action then you'll walk away with much more knowledge than you had, but only moderate change at best, if at all. I'm not guaranteeing the change because I can't - you're responsible for yourself and only you can follow through - but the guidance I offer will work if you do the work. 

If you use this time well you can make fundamental changes in your life.

​What to expect


If you're ready to make changes, you should expect some immediate results.

They may be subtle, but if you're consistent then you'll start to see bigger changes in yourself and your life. Changes you probably didn't think were possible. 

In other words, you'll start to create the life you actually want. There's things you want in life which, for whatever reason, you haven't achieved on your own. Working with me provides the difference, the factor which finally leads to achieving it.

I provide 90 minute intensives, and four month programs. Those who attend an intensive session can choose to credit it to a program. See here for the 90 minute intensive, and keep reading below about the four month program.

Here's what the Four Month Intensive package includes:

  • A comprehensive starter pack so you can set your goals for our work together.
 
  • Twelve sessions across four months by phone, video, or in-person.
 
  • An intensive and extended first session (90 minutes) to review your life, clarify your goals, assess your challenges, and work over any fears or obstacles to our work. 
 
  • Then eleven 50 minute sessions to be spread out according to your preference.
 
  • Daily reporting to me on weekdays - if you want to - to keep yourself accountable and submit a summary of your progress that day - every day for four months!
 
  • The ability to shift goals as we go, as you learn more about yourself and what you really want.
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Book a discovery call now and we'll discuss what I do and whether the program is right for you. Note, the call will not be a coaching session, and is only for people who are ready and able to start now, though there'll be no hard sell, just a frank conversation about what you want and how I help with that.